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Post by bannanny on Oct 25, 2010 12:42:56 GMT -5
Dogs rule!!!!
love you too barb ~~ nanners
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Post by friskers on Oct 25, 2010 13:14:54 GMT -5
Im really sadened because it appears JJ has left as her name is in white now Can I just say it does not matter if you agree or disagree with an administrators action, it is their choice as a moderator how to handle things and we are their guests in their house so to speak. This whole matter was between JJ and KItkat IMO and we all should have kept out of it IMO Moderators have there limits and feelings and emotions/stresses too and I think people forget that . They are sick too and have tremendous stress trying to take actions that can never please everyone. Im so sorry all this happened ! I hope everyone realizes we just lost a great moderator and person on this board. JJ please come back! But if you dont I truely understand
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Post by ed on Oct 25, 2010 13:24:36 GMT -5
Dogs rule!!!! ....... nanners ah.........yep. Ed
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Post by toni on Oct 25, 2010 13:58:09 GMT -5
Im really sadened because it appears JJ has left as her name is in white now Can I just say it does not matter if you agree or disagree with an administrators action, it is their choice as a moderator how to handle things and we are their guests in their house so to speak. This whole matter was between JJ and KItkat IMO and we all should have kept out of it IMO Moderators have there limits and feelings and emotions/stresses too and I think people forget that . They are sick too and have tremendous stress trying to take actions that can never please everyone. Im so sorry all this happened ! I hope everyone realizes we just lost a great moderator and person on this board. JJ please come back! But if you dont I truely understand Friskers, I again agree with exactly every word you have said. Ditto-ditto. Thank you Friskers also for saying this so well. JJ, we do love you. One last thing, as I am compelled to open my mouth. This is exactly WHY (PM's) MUST remain what they are. Private Messages, no matter what. Because this board imho is to be treated/respected as though we are in another's house, and the admins are the keepers of this house. Too much gets misunderstood - in not knowing the entire spectrum of an admins actions, and in all reality, what goes on with an ADMIN and a member is not everyone's business IMHO -and it's not up to an admin to "have to explain ALL reasons for their actions". So whether we learn or know 'why', this or that, well, truthfully - it's not our business. I know that might not go over well with some, but if this is looked at in it's proper perspective, then one will see, these are the rules of THIS board. It's that simple.
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Post by friskers on Oct 25, 2010 14:08:42 GMT -5
thanks Toni .Im not sure I said it well but thanks for saying so Barb.........Im so sorry you lost your beloved pet. I wish you healing and comfort
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Post by ibzahp on Oct 25, 2010 16:12:03 GMT -5
Yes this is really sad. JJ I hope you will reconsider as you have always been kind and fair to me. Sometimes there is information we are not privy to as may have been the case of information shared between you and kitkat. Moderators have a lot on their plate. As a new person kitkat, I hope you will think about coming back as well. Families have disagreements. We all come out better when we use our energies to work them out.
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Post by jeany on Oct 25, 2010 16:20:06 GMT -5
Hello Barb, I'm so sorry you lost your Niki but sometimes when our beloved animals suffer too much we just have to let them go just like we needed to do with our kitty mickey last year. I'm feeling with you and I hope you'll get to feel better soon.
much love xxoo Jeany
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Post by bannanny on Oct 25, 2010 17:44:53 GMT -5
I'm so so sorry I got involved in this... just want to say before I leave for a week, please read my thread that I need your prayers. Life is too short for squabbles... my girlfriend back in California will never be able to hold her son again here on earth. That kind of heartbreak is devastating... I care a great deal for kat and JJ both and it hurts that it came to this. Again... I'm sorry I opened my mouth... I've learned a great lesson in doing so. The biggest being we can never take what we have for granted... not ever. Forgive me for getting involved if you can...
I love you all ~~ bannanny
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Post by rhorn2006 on Oct 25, 2010 18:36:15 GMT -5
I wrote KitKat at her personal off-site email address asking her to consider coming back... Hopefully she will...
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Post by fritolay66 on Oct 25, 2010 23:31:29 GMT -5
You mean to tell me JJ has left as moderator? Are you all kidding me?
Would seem some decisions are in order in my life as well.
Frito
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Post by kmar on Oct 26, 2010 15:04:32 GMT -5
Yes this is really sad. JJ I hope you will reconsider as you have always been kind and fair to me. Sometimes there is information we are not privy to as may have been the case of information shared between you and kitkat. Moderators have a lot on their plate. As a new person kitkat, I hope you will think about coming back as well. Families have disagreements. We all come out better when we use our energies to work them out. Inez,(kitkat was not new to morgellons or this board) Agree with you -- JJ was always kind and fair to eveyone! --- She will be missed. JJ,Wishing you the very best! Thank you for all your time and devotion keeping this board safe and secure for all of us for so long. Very Sincerely will miss you, Kmarie
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Post by ed on Oct 26, 2010 16:41:10 GMT -5
ah.......boy, you don't understand all you don't know about this. Done deal, let it be. Ed
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Post by rhorn2006 on Oct 26, 2010 17:08:14 GMT -5
ah.......boy, you don't understand all you don't know about this. Done deal, let it be. Ed First off "I'm not a boy, I'm a man" and secondly,, "boy" you dont understand that this is "not" about KitKat, it's about what does, and does not, constitute a board rules violation,, and ban warnings given based upon personal opinions........... "Boy!!"
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Post by friskers on Oct 26, 2010 21:48:19 GMT -5
can this thread be locked please
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Post by fritolay66 on Oct 27, 2010 0:12:51 GMT -5
If I could second that request.
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Post by rhorn2006 on Oct 27, 2010 0:59:44 GMT -5
Enough said, and not said.. I won't bother anyone further...
Best wishes to all....
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Post by friskers on Oct 27, 2010 10:51:04 GMT -5
Im sorry you felt the need to leave Rhorn but this is not the place to bash a moderator and especially since she is already gone..I hope some day you will understand that . I also hope you understand theres a " bigger picture" in all these instances you brought up. You could not possibly understand it all because JJ is a person who will not air someones dirty laundry including yours because she is an extreemly ethical person , even to save her own reputation . I wish you had known her better and you would not have said all those negative things about her. all she wanted was what was right for the board and she served us for many years with little thanks . God bless you JJ and God Bless you too Rhorn. I hope you both find peace in your lives
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Post by ANTHILL on Oct 27, 2010 13:07:32 GMT -5
I'm still not sure what and how things transpired here something something about inaccurate information about the CDC and then it blew from there and became a entirely different creature I am not the thought police I am leaving it up to the honor system that the information you post on this board is accurate Here is the section on the board for the rules and regs Let's pay special attention to the ban section as well as flaming admin and posting private messages with out the permission of both party's involved When in doubt and have questions this is the place you need to go to --good reading ---I tell you what' lymebusters.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=rulesI am sorry that Rhorn left I enjoy him on this board all he has to do to come back is re-register and I will let him in As far as Kitkat I am willing to initiate civilized dialog with her to let her back in on the condition that she read the rules and has in mind that Admin reserves the right to ban anyone at any time for any reason per the rules posted on this board please Let's all be the get along gang ----without further ado per suggestion this thead is locked
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