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Post by bannanny on Oct 25, 2010 17:34:19 GMT -5
I just got some heart breaking news. My best girlfriend back in California just lost her only son to a motorcycle accident. I'll be flying out tomorrow to be with her and will be gone for about a week. Please pray for her to find the strength to see her thru... she could only sob over the phone and not speak a word. She has friends and family with her now... but I need to be there too.
I wish things weren't in such turmoil here regarding kat and JJ... but now we know there are way worse things that can happen. Our disagreements can always be resolved... but my Sharon will never be able to hold her son in her arms again here on earth. Please think about that and try to love each other again... I know I love you all very much and never meant to cause any harm here if I did. And if I did... please forgive me.
Thank you for your prayers... I'll see you soon.
love ~~ bannanny
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Post by mercury on Oct 25, 2010 18:27:42 GMT -5
Dear Bannanny, My prayers go out to your dear Sharon and her family. I'm so very sorry that your dear friend has lost her son. I'm sure that your presence along with her family will be of great comfort to Sharon now.
Lots of Love, Merc
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Post by rhorn2006 on Oct 25, 2010 18:47:35 GMT -5
That's so sad. Please tell her that my hopes and prayers are with her in this time of tragedy..
Sparky, please be safe on your trip, and I hope you get back soon...
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Post by friskers on Oct 25, 2010 19:23:14 GMT -5
Bannans Im so sorry for your friend. I know you will be a comfort to her .( Yes we do learn lifes biggest lessons in tradgedys like this it seems)
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Post by freaky on Oct 26, 2010 16:56:43 GMT -5
Sharon, you, and her family are in my prayers. I can only imagine how she must feel, what this would be like. Only those who have experience it themselves would know. Ii hope I never do. What a horrible, and sad thing to have happened. I'm sorry this has happened to your friend.
Much love, and blessings, freaky
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Post by bannanny on Oct 28, 2010 11:01:55 GMT -5
I came to mom's last night... Sharon has friends and family with her still. I only have a minute before I go back in with momma tho to see my other girlfriend Cheryl again today and then will be going back down to stay with Sharon again later this evening.
Yesterday, momma and my sis were waiting outside Sharons when her mom and me got back from setting everything up at the church... but only to give me even more terrible news. My dear friend who was a brother to me for 25 yrs. has also passed. He died Tuesday morning... my heart is so broken apart with all that's happening here I needed to ask for your prayers once again. I need them more than ever right now... I need them for Sharon and now Cheryl too. Mike and Cheryl were together for almost 30 years and she along with Sharon is devastated beyond belief, just as we all are here. I had to tell Sharon I'd be gone for the night under false pretenses as she's also a friend of Mike and Cheryl's... but I coudln't tell her of his passing right now as you can understand why.
I'll be staying here in California for longer than expected now so I can be here for Mike's services too. I'm not sure when I'll be back on board... but know I love you all so very much and I thank you for your prayers.
I know God is holding both Mike and Christopher in His arms now... but only time will make this heartbreak we're all enduring ease.
I love you ~~ bannanny
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Post by friskers on Oct 28, 2010 21:13:33 GMT -5
Im really sorry to hear another loss for you and your friends Bannans. 2 so close together must be very shocking and doubly sad.Sending you prayers and hugs :-*Love Friskers
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Post by glennb on Oct 29, 2010 3:43:59 GMT -5
It is difficult to imagine anything worse than losing a child. My heart goes out to your friend. I pray that she is comforted in this horrible time.
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Post by toni on Oct 29, 2010 6:43:33 GMT -5
I am sorry to hear of both of your dear friend's losses. May God give them strength in this painful time. Take care and keep strong Bannanny, and we are sending our prayers and care.
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Post by pdidit on Oct 31, 2010 10:36:32 GMT -5
oh bannanny,
I am so sorry to hear this news and will send my prayers for you and your friend...I can't even imagine this kind of loss and it prays on my mind especially since my sister lost her daughter in a car accident over two years ago. This affected our whole family and was so tragic...circumstances that could have been avoided [she was hit by a police officer not slowing down in a traffic intersection!!!] My sister struggled every day with depression for so long, but now is better with her faith and of course, time --it takes much time to work through this kind of loss.
It breaks my heart and tell her our thoughts are with her...I also hope that you will be feeling ok out there too...saw your post about how you were having a resurgence of symptoms. But hopefully it will be good for you as well as Sharon too--just your presence and having you to lean on will help her grieve her loss with a feeling of comfort, just knowing you are there...as unbearable a pain as it is... oh dear Lord, life's curve balls....
Let us know when you get back
xx pdidit
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Post by Lynn on Oct 31, 2010 23:16:03 GMT -5
Hi Bananny
Very sorry to hear. I will pray. Safe trip for you also.
In Light Lynn
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Post by freaky on Nov 2, 2010 17:51:02 GMT -5
So sorry to hear this has happened. Sorry to hear about your other good friend as well. You are always in my prayers.
Love, freaky
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Post by ibzahp on Nov 3, 2010 2:30:19 GMT -5
I love and pray for you. I need your everloving prayer. i am in whales of trouble my sweetheart is leaving me and doesn't jlove me no mare. I am so sick and brainfalged. am not strong enoukh. I love my man , he is everything to me. I am so very very broke.without him body find and hrart i look forward to your wods
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Post by bannanny on Nov 3, 2010 11:31:06 GMT -5
Thank you all so very much for your prayers.... I'm back at mom's now and getting ready to go down to Cheryl's to help her and Mike's parents with his funeral which isn't until the 8th. There will be a viewing on the 6th before he's cremated... Cheryl and me will be bringing his clothes to the parlor today.
Christopher's service was so very beautiful... he was such a good boy with an amazing heart (just like his mother's.) He loved to dance and spread joy to others... and I can just see him dancing with all the other angels now. I hated to leave Sharon, but it's time now to help Cheryl, the boys, and Mike's beautiful parents get thru this next one.
I was out on the porch last night looking down the hill where my sweet dogs and my precious Katy cat are buried and just as clear as day I suddenly saw my dear Mike playing and runnning thru the grass with his sweet dog Blue who he loved so much. I know he's out of pain now and I know he's dancing with our sweet Christopher too... and I know they're both going to be safe now and forever more.
I just wanted to tell you all that I knew I could depend on you for your prayers... they've helped me more than you know. I also wanted to say this is just to update you and let you know I think about you every day and miss you very much. But now is a time to help others (and myself) heal... so I won't be posting right now.
All I want to say is I'm so very sorry to hear JJ and rhorn have left the board... I will miss them a great deal. So if either of you are reading here, please stay in touch with me at goodgiegrl@aol.com ok?
Ibzahp... I'm so very sorry to hear your news. I'm sure your man will always love you and hold you in his heart... but he looks to be the kind of person who simply doesn't have the strength to help another thru the troubles that befall them. So try to see it as him having a different purpose in life than you do... and try to see him for what he is and forgive him for it as well. Don't allow his downfalls to break you my friend... or to break your beautiful heart. You're better than that and you have so much to give... don't ever forget who you are. I know I won't... you've got a kind, loving, and giving soul, and that means more than anything else does in this world.
I love you... I love you all ~~ bannanny
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Post by bannanny on Nov 3, 2010 11:34:59 GMT -5
I'm sorry... I forgot to tell you I'll get to your PM's as soon as I can. But right now I have to go, so forgive me for not replying right now. I will answer them as soon as I can.
big big hugs ~~ bannanny
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Post by ibzahp on Nov 6, 2010 2:03:51 GMT -5
Thanks Bananny, I am so glad you were there for the services and that you have an amazing heart my friend and thanks for your prayers and kindness. You are the glue that holds people together,its true When I am weary I remember all the love including all the special people on this board. I like to think that JJ and Rhorn will return someday if and when they'are ready. Love ibzahp laughter and tears-two medicines
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Post by ibzahp on Nov 6, 2010 2:06:16 GMT -5
This is so sad, a parent should never have to put a child to rest. :'(Be strong for her!
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